Welcome to Date Like A Girl. Date Like a Girl is based on The Rules phenomenon when back in the 1980s Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider recognised that modern women, although successful in their careers, were finding the world of dating confusing, painful and even disastrous. After studying their friends relationships they decided to analyse what worked and what didn't. They realised a simple fact. That women who pursue men got hurt, treat badly and dumped but women who let the man do the pursuing were treated better, were happier in their relationships and more likely to get married. As a Certified Rules Coach I wrote this website to introduce you to The Rules world of dating. I've seen these principles work in my own life and the lives of my friends. If you don't believe me try some of the ideas in your own life and see what happens. When women end up in bad relationships their self-worth and self-confidence erodes. They are miserable but hang on hoping and hoping ...
You can't practice The Rules if you don't have any men in your life so your first step is to get out there. Here are just a few suggestions to get you started but don't forget to make an effort. Put on your make up, a nice outfit and your best smile. Online dating. Dating apps such as Tinder Speed dating events Meetup.com Shopping centres Supermarkets Coffee shops Parks especially when an organised event is Bookshops Churches or meditation classes Sports events Sports groups such as tennis or running clubs Lectures and book signings Political campaigns I was the girl who got walked on, now I'm the girl who gets flowers.